Sunday, 31 March 2013
USAH BERPUTUS ASA...
PUTUS ASA RACUN KEHIDUPAN
Lantas bagaimana cara bisa mengatasi tekanan eksternal kehidupan & menguatkan ketahanan diri? Depresi maupun tekanan eksternal dalam kehidupan sehari-hari bisa memberikan dampak positif bagi anda maka ada beberapa hal yang dapat dilakukan. Pertama, Berhentilah untuk mengeluh, lakukanlah apa yang anda bisa lakukan. Kedua, Bersyukurlah dengan kehidupan anda yang sekarang. Ketiga, Memohonlah pertolongan Allah dengan sholat dan sabar maka hal itu memberikan kekuatan ketahanan diri anda sehingga seberat apapun tekanan eksternal, kegagalan dalam usaha, bisnis, karier dan perjuangan hidup, tidak akan membuat anda putus asa dalam mengarungi kehidupan. Ketaqwaan anda kepada Allah yang menjadikan anda kuat dalam menghadapi tekanan kehidupan sebesar apapun sehingga bisa menyelesaikan masalah yang sedang dihadapi.
Lantas bagaimana cara bisa mengatasi tekanan eksternal kehidupan & menguatkan ketahanan diri? Depresi maupun tekanan eksternal dalam kehidupan sehari-hari bisa memberikan dampak positif bagi anda maka ada beberapa hal yang dapat dilakukan. Pertama, Berhentilah untuk mengeluh, lakukanlah apa yang anda bisa lakukan. Kedua, Bersyukurlah dengan kehidupan anda yang sekarang. Ketiga, Memohonlah pertolongan Allah dengan sholat dan sabar maka hal itu memberikan kekuatan ketahanan diri anda sehingga seberat apapun tekanan eksternal, kegagalan dalam usaha, bisnis, karier dan perjuangan hidup, tidak akan membuat anda putus asa dalam mengarungi kehidupan. Ketaqwaan anda kepada Allah yang menjadikan anda kuat dalam menghadapi tekanan kehidupan sebesar apapun sehingga bisa menyelesaikan masalah yang sedang dihadapi.
'Barangsiapa bertakwa kepada Allah niscaya Allah menjadikan
baginya kemudahan dalam segala urusannya.' (QS. Ath-Thalaq : 4).
Wednesday, 27 March 2013
Thursday, 14 March 2013
BAHAYA APABILA HUTANG BERGANDA !!
Usah
biarkan HUTANG terus memBelenggu dan menJerut Hidup ANDA, perlu bagi ANDA melakukan Perubahan dan Carilah jalan keluar ...LAKUKAN DENGAN SEGERA !
Sekiranya SOLUTION itu ada di SAF MAGNET REZEKI..adakah ANDA akan bertindak terus atau mahu melihat sahaja?
Bimbingan secara Personal & Berkumpulan mampu memberikan anda KICKSTART ini!
Adakah anda BERSEDIA ? Adakah anda SERIUS ?
Tiada yang Mustahil bagi anda Ubah halatuju demi mencapai status Kewangan yang lebih SELESA & mencapai HOLLISTIC SUCCESS!!
YESSS!!....
"The Secret of SAVINGS" mungkin
yang ANDA perlukan selama ini,
ia adalah SOLUTION yang belum pernah lagi anda lakukan
...ia adalah jalan keluar bagi ANDA!
Wednesday, 13 March 2013
MASIH INGAT KERATAN DARI AKHBAR INI?
Suatu SOLUTION itu tidak akan dapat memberi kesan yang positif kepada anda sekiranya anda hanya berpeluk tubuh tanpa Bertindak..
Tuesday, 5 March 2013
Monday, 4 March 2013
what is our values...
One
young man went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He
passed the initial interview, and now would meet the director for the
final interview.
The director discovered from his CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent. He asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "no".
" Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"
"My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.” he replied.
" Where did your mother work?"
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner.”
The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
" Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"
"Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, "I have a request. When you go home today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to her son.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when he touched it.
The director discovered from his CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent. He asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "no".
" Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"
"My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.” he replied.
" Where did your mother work?"
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner.”
The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
" Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"
"Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, "I have a request. When you go home today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.
The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to her son.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when he touched it.
This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fees. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his education, his school activities and his future.
After cleaning his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, when he asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"
The youth answered," I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'
“I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, I would not be who I am today. By helping my mother, only now do I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done on your own. And I have come to appreciate the importance and value of helping one’s family.
The director said, "This is what I am looking for in a manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.”
“You are hired.”
This young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and worked as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop an "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, they may be successful for a while, but eventually they would not feel a sense of achievement. They will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying our children instead?
You can let your child live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch on a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your child learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.
Try to forward this story to as many as possible...this may change somebody's fate.
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